In my role as a commerce editor, I’ve written about the best sex toys for women for over four years. I’ve spoken with dozens of certified sex experts, tried many myself, and waded through studies and reviews. The questions I get asked the most by people are “How does that toy work?” (I know, some of them look pretty futuristic), and “Which one should I buy first?” If you’re wondering the same, I’ll share what I always tell my friends: Figure out how you want to use the toy (alone, with other people, or both), and what sensations give you the most pleasure. Then you can narrow it down.
For instance, if you know you like clitoral stimulation and the sensation of oral sex, the powerful Lelo Sona Cruise 2 and the cheaper Satisfyer Pro 2 are two of the best suction toys. Need a toy that hits the G-spot? Try the Lelo Gigi 2, or the remote-controllable We-Vibe Chorus. Want to try pegging? Add a dildo, like Unbound’s Pogo and a Lovehoney strap-on set, to your cart. Beginners to vibrators can opt for the easy-to-use, wallet-friendly Maude Vibe or Dame Fin (both faves of mine).
Here’s a quick breakdown of what each major sex toy type is best for, in case your head’s spinning.
Ahead, the best options for folks with vulvas, according to Glamour reviewers (like me) and sex educators.
Learn more about the different sex toys for women.
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